Monday, February 2, 2009

How To Satisfy Your Lover

Learn special techniques that will teach you how to make her climax every single time and also learn about the G-spot to fully understand the woman’s body to get the full effect. She will not get enough of you when you show her your special and unique skill on how to completely satisfy her.

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Why Men Lose Interest In Sex

There is nothing more hurtful than to think that your partner does not want to touch you. At first things were ok; having sex when you wanted to was no problem. Now all of a sudden when you want to have sex, he always turns you down. The first thing you think is that he is having an affair. That could be the case. Some men that don't want sex all the time could have a problem I mean down there, you know with the manhood. They could be suffering from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) it is reported that the reason why some men do not have sex is because 30% of men suffer from this condition. Depression can play a big role in the lack of sex because being depressed can lower means libido.

Ladies you are not going to like this but 20% reported that the reason they do not have sex with their partner anymore is because they are having an affair. 44% say they are just too tired to have sex and 68% say that their partner is not adventurous enough in the bedroom. There is no passion for those of you who think that this is the reason why your partner does not want to have sex. Get rid of the bedroom boredom explore more with sex and spice it up!

Not knowing why your spouse isn't interest in you anymore can be very frustrating it can make you feel insecure, unattractive, unwanted, unloved and neglected. 28% of men say that they don't know why they are not interested in intercourse with their partner and 66% women don't know why their men are not interested either. This shows lack of communication, How are you going to know what is wrong if you do not talk about it? Men are always portrayed to be the ones that are sex maniacs they just can't get enough of it but, surprising when it comes to lack of sex in a relationship now it is because the men are not giving it up.

Weight gain can also be the issue 38% of men say that they are not attracted to their spouse anymore because the spouse weight was a problem. 20 million couples are in a sexless relationship lack of communication and boredom in the bedroom is the problem. If you want that passion back discuss each others issues get to the source of the problem hopefully the issue is not an affair. Counseling can be of help to if you and your partner feels that will fix things. Having sex is not the only way of being intimate with your lover talking to each other trying to figure out each others needs can lead to a long passionate relationship in and out of the bedroom


Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?

According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!

A lot of flack fall on men on why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.

6 Reasons Why Women DON’T Climax

There are many reasons why women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…

Foreplay? What foreplay?

Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of extending your own sexual stamina.

She’s thinking too much!

Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework, dirty laundry, etc.).

She’s full of… insecurities.

Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small/big?

If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”

ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!

She really doesn’t know her own body.

There is a certain art form to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right?

The best thing is… it’s never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here are some clues to save you a few steps…

YOU’re not paying attention!

True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close!

To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts. Click here to learn more...

YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.

Men like to try different sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again.

So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.

Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do it here…

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