Friday, June 24, 2011

Ashley Madison Have A Affair Is It Ruin Relationships?

There are millions of online dating websites and services all over the internet. But this particular website promotes cheating and it’s called Ashley Madison. It is owned by Entrepreneur Noel Birderman. This website is very controversial, because it allows people to sign up for a membership to find the perfected partner to cheat with.

I admit when I first heard of the website I was shocked! But no one forces anyone to cheat. Cheating has been going on since the beginning of time and no dating service can be accused for that. Sure, they tell you to have an affair, but it does not force you to. If you were thinking about having an affair and going through with it you really don’t need this cheating service, affairs happens everywhere you don’t need a service for that.

There are people who are married that have memberships and there are singles that have one too and who are just looking for someone who is already attached. There are 2.6 million members registered on this site and it grows every single day! Every 20 seconds someone joins to find that special one or a couple of special ones to have an explicit affair with. They guarantee that you will find you a mate, but the owner Noel says when he was on the Tyra Banks show, “When he talks to his clients he makes sure it’s something that they want to do. He offers them advice on first trying to repair the relationship, seek counseling and take time to think about what they are doing“. Still with his great advice some viewers still have negative feelings towards Noel.

Like I said, no matter what a dating service says no one can make you cheat. Cheating has occurred in at least 70% of relationships, according to scientists Tyra Banks says that “if couples were more open about their sexuality the number rate of infidelity would drop“.

One particular member from the Ashley Madison dating website signed up and within a few days she had received 700 emails from different guys wanting to chat with her. Another member registered and she had met quite a few guys on the dating site, she had gone out with them and within 6 month she had slept with at least 150 men! Wow! It just amazes me how people take cheating so lightly! It’s like infidelity more phenomenal than ever!

Another member from the Tyra show had some problems in her marriage and she turned to this website to met men who would give her the attention she was not getting in her current relationship. Eventually she divorced her husband and she still dates guys from the site. This member says she enjoys her single lifestyle and does not want to go back.

Entrepreneur Noel got this idea from statistics that showed how many married people were actually looking to date from other websites. So he came up with a website especially for cheaters and it’s a gold mine. He’s happily married and his wife is fine the business. When asked if he’d ever had an affair he simply said “No I don’t use the service and I‘ve never cheated on my wife, this business is similar to a drug dealer‘s business, you don’t use the product that you sell.

So does this dating service ruin lives? No, the clients are ruining their own lives. If someone wants to cheat there are thousands of ways and plenty of places to go to have one. Is it morally wrong to promote it? Yes, but people are going to do what they want to do anyway cheating website or no cheating website it’s going to happen. Noel just found a lucrative way to benefit from it, he could have chosen another opportunity, but he didn’t.